Use a conversational starter

Sharing your interests and hobbies not only makes your profile more engaging but also gives potential matches conversation starters. Whether you’re into hiking, painting, or binge-watching Netflix, let your profile reflect your true self. This helps attract people with similar interests.

Example: Defending champion of darts. Haven't lost a game in years. Or, I can beat anyone at Scrabble.

• A statement like this gives people an opening to respond to a challenge.
• A playful statement can go a long way.
• When you talk about what you are interested in it will attract people like-minded.
• Give your answers context.
• Don't just say: I like art. Instead say: "I am always on the lookout for my next art piece to go with my current collection. My favorite one hanging on my wall is from a local art exhibit." This statement lets the reader know you like art and gives them an opportunity to learn more about you.
• Statements like these will attract the right type of person instead of the wrong one.
• Don't recommend coming right out and saying “Don't message me if you just want to hook up.” instead try looking for opportunities to explain who you are and what you want. For example: if you are looking for someone who wants to go to musicals and plays share that you want to experience specific things together. This will help deter the wrong person and attract someone who has the same interests as you.